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Navigating the spooky side of dating

Halloween isn’t the only spooky thing this year... Today’s dating world can be a scary place leaving you feeling more tricked than treated.

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How to de-escalate an argument

We’ve all been there. What starts out as a robust discussion - a mild disagreement, even - turns into a really horrible argument.

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How to trust your gut this summer

Ever had that feeling that there is something 'off' about a situation or person for no apparent reason?

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The best sex toys to take on holiday

Summer is in full swing and we know that many of you are packing your bags for that much-needed holiday.

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How to navigate a summer fling

Summer is finally here which means longer evenings, sunny weekends and for some of us, maybe even a short-term romance to turn up the heat even mor

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Relate has local Centres across the UK. The services each Centre provides varies, because each centre tailors their services - such as couples counselling, sex therapy, and counselling for children and your people - to the needs of their local community

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