Deciding to not get married
Whether you've always known you don't want to get married, or if you're exploring other options for the first time, we're here to guide you along the way with this workbook.
What's included?
The deciding to not get married toolkit involves a blend of reflection, conversation topics, and action across a range of topics including:
- Thinking about your future
- Social and family expectations
- Your goals and values
- And more
Here's a sneak peak of just some of the things you'll find inside...
Reflective questions to help you consider what you might be feeling on your journey.
Informational pages to help you navigate talking about your choice with friends, family, and your wider circles.
Exercises to help you evaluate how prepared you are to decide to not get married.
Who is this workbook for?
The deciding not to get married toolkit is for anyone figuring out what a fulfilling relationship looks like without marriage in the picture. Whether you're just starting out or reassessing your relationships, this toolkit offers support for creating meaningful connections on your terms.
Inside, you'll find conversation prompts and activities to explore alone or with a partner. You can skip anything that doesn’t feel right yet—there’s no pressure to go through it all at once.
This toolkit isn’t a substitute for professional counselling. If you’re facing bigger challenges, seeking advice from a professional can make a real difference.
How much does the workbook cost and how do I buy it?
The deciding to not get married toolkit is £10. You can buy the toolkit using the form below - once you have bought it, it will send you an email containing your toolkit.
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