Has there been a breach of trust in your relationship?  When one partner 'cheats' or has an affair, this can be incredibly painful and damaging to the relationship and to you individually. It can leave you questioning everything about your relationship and wondering whether to leave all together.  It can leave you no longer liking or trusting yourself.

It's true that some relationships will never fully recover from infidelity, but if both partners are willing to put in the work it is absolutely possible to rebuild trust and even enjoy a relationship which is different and even stronger.

Take the first step towards rebuilding your life by booking in for relationship counselling for cheating and infidelity with us today.

Book relationship counselling 

Can't see a time that works for you? 
If you can't find a suitable time or would rather not book online you can use phone or email to reach us instead. We'll respond asap between 9am and 7pm, Monday to Thursday and 9am and 5pm Friday to Sunday.

Call: 0300 003 2972

Email: NatEnquiries@relate.org.uk

 

What is counselling for cheating and infidelity?

 

Counselling for cheating and infidelity is relationship counselling where the focus is on a breach of trust such as a sexual affair, an emotional affair, a one-night stand or any behaviour which goes against an agreement in a relationship.

You can attend as a couple, for example with the aim of understanding why the infidelity happened and working to rebuild trust.  You may also want to attend on your own if the affair is ongoing and you don't know how to end it or what to do.  Another reason you may attend on your own is if your partner has cheated, you are no longer together and you want to work on rebuilding your life after the affair.

The counselling sessions can take place online or face-to-face depending on where in the country you are based and will take 50 minutes.

 

Book relationship counselling 

 

Can't see a time that works for you? 
If you can't find a suitable time or would rather not book online you can use phone or email to reach us instead. We'll respond asap between 9am and 7pm, Monday to Thursday and 9am and 5pm, Friday to Sunday.

Call: 0300 003 2972

Email: NatEnquiries@relate.org.uk

Who can attend counselling for cheating and infidelity?

 

Anyone over the age of 18 can attend. 

You can attend on your own or together depending on your situation and goals for the therapy.

We often see couples in monogamous relationships where there has been a breach of trust.  We also see clients who are consensually non-monogamous relationships and where one or both partners have gone against the agreements that have been put in place. 

Begin your journey towards increased trust and a stronger relationship by booking in with us today.

 

Book relationship counselling 

 

Can't see a time that works for you? 
If you can't find a suitable time or would rather not book online you can use phone or email to reach us instead. We'll respond asap between 9am and 7pm, Monday to Thursday and 9am and 5pm, Friday to Sunday.

Call: 0300 003 2972

Email: NatEnquiries@relate.org.uk

 

What issues can cheating and infidelity counselling help with?

 

We can help with a range of issues relating to cheating and infidelity. As well as focussing on the cheating itself, we will look at the broader relationship and at you as people, to see if there are any underlying issues which led to the breach of trust.  

Issues we can support with include:

  • Emotional affairs
  • One night stands
  • Cheating, affairs and infidelity
  • Porn use when it is not agreed in the relationship
  • Creating clear boundaries and agreements for the future
  • Concerns about compulsive sexual behaviour or sex addiction*
  • Cheating in consensually non-monogamous relationships
  • Underlying issues in the relationship
  • Rebuilding trust and and intimacy
  • How to bring novelty into your relationship

*Please note this is not a sexually compulsive behaviour or sex addiction service but we can discuss concerns with you and signpost to appropriate support if needed. 

 

Book relationship counselling 

 

Can't see a time that works for you? 
If you can't find a suitable time or would rather not book online you can use phone or email to reach us instead. We'll respond asap between 9am and 7pm, Monday to Thursday and 9am and 5pm Friday to Sunday.

Call: 0300 003 2972

Email: NatEnquiries@relate.org.uk

 

What to expect

  • A supportive and collaborative service
  • Help to navigate infidelity, cheating and trust issues 
  • Inclusive and respectful therapy
  • Safe and non-judgemental counselling
  • Every voice heard and valued
  • Work with trained professionals
  • Develop strategies for change
  • Improve communication
  • Strengthen your bond
  • Counselling tailored to your specific needs
  • Build a stronger foundation
  • Learn, grow, and find ways to connect

 

Book relationship counselling 

 

Can't see a time that works for you? 
If you can't find a suitable time or would rather not book online you can use phone or email to reach us instead. We'll respond asap between 9am and 7pm, Monday to Thursday and 9am and 5pm, Friday to Sunday.

Call: 0300 003 2972

Email: NatEnquiries@relate.org.uk

Book in with us today

 

We understand that taking that first step and booking in for counselling can be scary but it might just be the best decision you make for your relationship with your partner and most importantly for the relationship with yourself.  We're friendly and non-judgmental and believe us when we say we have heard it all.  We work all the time with clients who are affected by infidelity, have had affairs or are tempted to cheat.  We're here to listen and no matter what you're going through, we can relate. 

Take the first step towards a happier future and book in with us today.

 

Book relationship counselling 

 

Can't see a time that works for you? 
If you can't find a suitable time or would rather not book online you can use phone or email to reach us instead. We'll respond asap between 9am and 7pm, Monday to Thursday and 9am and 5pm Friday to Sunday.

Call: 0300 003 2972

Email: NatEnquiries@relate.org.uk